Surely you’re familiar with the expression: “You’re never fully dressed without a smile“. What does it mean? A smile is an ultimate force that shows people how attractive we are. It means that your real beauty lies in your self-confidence. There’s nothing more amazing than a happy face, sparkling eyes and a genuine smile from the bottom of the heart.
You can look like a top model, or not. But in both cases, your emotions reflect on your face. It’s easy for others to see if you’re unhappy, discouraged, or uncertain about yourself. You cannot hide your facial expressions.
There lies the importance of self-confidence. When you’re self-confident, you look appealing to others, radiate positive vibes all around you and attract similar people. Self-confidence is the most powerful magnet that attracts others. That way, your physical appearance comes second.
Self-confidence increases the quality of your life. That way, we know our real value, so that we become resistant to insults and all the negativity that surrounds us. We deal with our problems and walk away from unpleasant people and situations more easily.
You can have a perfect body and still not to be content with yourself while this scenario is common in real life, even if it sounds unreal. That way, your physical beauty is suppressed and can not be fully expressed.
On the other side, it’s common to have physical imperfections, but it does not mean that you are unattractive, or God forbid, to hate yourself. It doesn’t mean you’re worthless. You are a lovely human being. We are all unique and have some distinctive traits.
We do not need to pursue some unrealistic ideals that our society imposes us. If we agree to play their game, that pursue can only make us bitter. Remember, you can always look flawless with a proper makeup and some Photoshop tricks, but why bothering? You’re unique, and that makes you beautiful.
How to boost your self-confidence? You can do this by respecting yourself, treating yourself as you’re your best friend, spending quality time with yourself to determine your goals and discover your real value. Do things that make you happy, embrace life and your uniqueness.
What makes you unique? What are your traits you’re proud of? Do you have a beautiful smile or you are kind, social, have amazing writing skills, or something else? Be proud of who you are and focus on your strengths.
We are not all attractive the same way. Being unique is being beautiful. Self-confidence is the real power, consequently it’s way more important than a handsome body. Self-confidence can make any woman beautiful. Physical appearance is changeable, perhaps your positive attitude remains, and that’s what most people really notice. You need to foster your self-confidence to make it a lasting expression. Therefore you need to encourage yourself constantly to make it last. This is what remains after removing your makeup, taking off your shoes and fancy clothes.
Article by Sonja Marinkovic